Lieing people!

Ok, this is most DEFINITELY a rant, and not a very funny one either, but in the light of the blog, I'm going to try really hard to MAKE it funny. But the main point to this post is to call someone out for the phony he really is. Someone who is too much of a coward to be himself when trying to catch the attentions of the fairer sex.

Now, I'm pretty sure I MAY get a slander suit from posting this, but I'm willing to take that chance because this is a conversation taken straight from my yahoo chat. Right there in black and white and I have saved the conversation to my hard drive and made copies on disk just to protect myself.

I have also given a copy to a friend of mine who works in the radio business just in case something should happen from my posting this here, but I feel it is worth the risk in this case so some other poor woman doesn't get caught up in this guy's crap and manipulative ways. As you will see from this convo...he even tried to twist the fact he lied to ME around to it all being MY fault. This guy is a master at making a person feel guilty for things they shouldn't feel guilty about. Stupid things like the way you say something. I couldn't say the phrase "as you wish" I couldn't use the term pussy to describe my woman parts. I wasn't allowed to be myself with him. my whole experience with him had to be done with restraint and honestly, I had to walk on egg shells with this guy, only to find out in the end...he lied to me.

anyway...here is the conversation:

Alek (4/23/2010 6:36:21 AM): Rest is good.
Alek (4/23/2010 6:36:35 AM): So are healing and peace.
Alek (4/23/2010 6:36:44 AM):
Raven (4/23/2010 6:51:08 AM): just woke up
Raven (4/23/2010 6:51:16 AM): feel a little better today
Alek (4/23/2010 6:51:21 AM): good
Alek (4/23/2010 6:51:38 AM): You are in my prayers.
Raven (4/23/2010 6:51:46 AM): ty
Alek (4/23/2010 6:52:53 AM): always....
Raven (4/23/2010 6:55:09 AM): been scouring Craig's List looking for work
Alek (4/23/2010 6:56:25 AM): ok
Alek (4/23/2010 7:00:08 AM): I wish you every success.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:00:23 AM): thanks hun. gonna need it.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:01:25 AM): certainly
Alek (4/23/2010 7:02:11 AM): and, when you have your life stabilized, I will disclose my TRUE identity to you.
ok, at THIS point, I'm going WTF! he just basically said he lied to me, and is like all calm about it and shit.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:02:15 AM):
Raven (4/23/2010 7:02:31 AM): pardon?
Raven (4/23/2010 7:03:47 AM): are you telling me what you have told me about yourself isn't true? that you are really someone else??????
Keep in mind, from past experiences with this guy, I have found that getting angry right off the bat is not a good idea, so I just simply asked the question. but inside I'm going, "what the FUCK!"
Alek (4/23/2010 7:04:02 AM): only that I am not 30-something
Alek (4/23/2010 7:04:07 AM): all the rest is true
Raven (4/23/2010 7:04:24 AM): so you lied about your age?
keep in mind, the last time someone lied to me about their age I had 6 guns drawn on me and was about to be arrested for federal kidnapping charges because I thought the kid was 18. he lied to me and told me he was 18 when in fact he was only 14. yea. and stupid me, I transported him over state lines.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:04:27 AM): WHY????
Raven (4/23/2010 7:04:36 AM): I never lied to you!
Alek (4/23/2010 7:04:42 AM): I do not wish to discuss this
Alek (4/23/2010 7:04:46 AM): goodbye
Raven (4/23/2010 7:05:04 AM): of course you don't. because you actually did something wrong.
Just like a cowardly man to run away when he knows he has been caught doing something wrong.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:05:20 AM): I refuse to reveal my personal information on slk
Alek (4/23/2010 7:05:23 AM): goodbye
Alek (4/23/2010 7:05:29 AM): sl*
Alek (4/23/2010 7:05:32 AM): too much risk
Raven (4/23/2010 7:05:37 AM): this is not SL!
This conversation actually happened on Yahoo, NOT SL (Second Life) So this goes to show you just how mentally disturbed this guy is, he can't even distinguish the reality of what chat form he is using.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:05:49 AM): and just what kind of risk can I pose to you?
Raven (4/23/2010 7:05:58 AM): I am a high school drop out.
This guy "claims" to be a doctor and a lawyer, but honestly, I don't think I would trust him to defend me, OR give me medical advice at this point if he can't even be honest about his AGE! and yes, I am not ashamed to say I am a high school drop out. At least I'm smart enough to know that lieing will get you nowhere in life except a lot of bullshit and pain.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:06:00 AM): calling me a "liar"
Alek (4/23/2010 7:06:09 AM): goodbye
Raven (4/23/2010 7:06:18 AM): well, you DID lie about your age...so...if the shoe fits.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:06:23 AM): I made an offer of complete openness
apparently he thinks lieing about his age is being OPEN??? this guy really IS delusional
Alek (4/23/2010 7:06:26 AM): b;lockied
Raven (4/23/2010 7:06:54 AM): but what I THOUGHT was openness was not really openness
Raven (4/23/2010 7:07:12 AM): so how can I be certain now that you would really be open? or if it just another lie?
Raven (4/23/2010 7:07:24 AM): if you would lie about your age...
Alek (4/23/2010 7:07:25 AM): we are done here
Raven (4/23/2010 7:07:30 AM): what else would you lie about?
Alek (4/23/2010 7:07:34 AM): do not write me again
of course he doesn't want me to write him again, because every time I do, I remind him of how much of a manipulating bastard he is.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:07:39 AM): you betrayed my trust.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:07:59 AM): you don't understand, the LAST time someone lied about their age, I almost got arrested!!!
Alek (4/23/2010 7:08:11 AM): DONE!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:08:13 AM): so this shit tends to make me a bit nervous
Raven (4/23/2010 7:08:24 AM): whatever. I don't want a liar in my life anyway
Alek (4/23/2010 7:08:40 AM): Solved
Alek (4/23/2010 7:08:47 AM): Consider me gone
Raven (4/23/2010 7:08:54 AM): you did it to yourself
Raven (4/23/2010 7:09:00 AM): when you lied about your age
Alek (4/23/2010 7:09:08 AM): I want no p[art of a sick, reactive bitch
a sick reactive bitch huh? I think I reacted the same way any other sane person would react when confronted with the fact the person they had fallen in love with had lied about their age.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:09:16 AM): I did nothinmg to myself
Alek (4/23/2010 7:09:20 AM): \not a thinbg
Raven (4/23/2010 7:09:29 AM): sick reactive bitch? how did you expect me to react when you told me you lied about your agew???
Raven (4/23/2010 7:09:40 AM): how would YOU feel if I had lied to YOU?
Raven (4/23/2010 7:09:47 AM): I bet you'd be pretty pissed
Raven (4/23/2010 7:10:11 AM): what if I told you I'm really a 12 year old middle schooler? And you jacked off in front of me!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:10:49 AM): I bet it would make you feel sick
Raven (4/23/2010 7:11:02 AM): well, finding out you aren't what you said you are is making ME sick
Alek (4/23/2010 7:11:23 AM): I warned you about more hostility against me
like he has the right to "warn" me about anything at this point. HAHAHA!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:11:44 AM): well, what did you think would happen when you tell me you lied about your age? seriously?
Alek (4/23/2010 7:11:45 AM): And the reason I do not disclosure certain aspects of my identity is precisely
Alek (4/23/2010 7:11:52 AM): on account of meeting people like you
people like me huh? just what is that supposed to mean? people who don't like being lied to...I think he will find that is like the whole fucking WORLD!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:11:52 AM): just when I was trying to make things work!!!
Alek (4/23/2010 7:11:54 AM): goodbye
Alek (4/23/2010 7:12:02 AM): There is nothing to work
Raven (4/23/2010 7:12:07 AM): because you BROKE IT!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:12:17 AM): no relationship can be built on lies!
Raven (4/23/2010 7:12:24 AM): because it will crumble
Raven (4/23/2010 7:12:32 AM): even YOU should know that
Raven (4/23/2010 7:20:51 AM): I just can't believe you lied to me. I am just shocked, hurt and I feel...like a fool for believing you.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:21:26 AM): whatever
Alek (4/23/2010 7:21:47 AM): A sl cyberwhore and a roommate of Brioan and Joe has now become a moralist.
This is where it gets really funny. I PLAY the ROLL of an escort on a video game, yet he is so warped he can't tell the difference between fact and fiction here. I am NOT a "cyber whore" in real life. I do NOT get naked on cam or talk dirty to men in real life. it is a freaking GAME, not reality.
Alek (4/23/2010 7:21:48 AM): bye
Alek (4/23/2010 7:21:59 AM): lover age
Alek (4/23/2010 7:22:03 AM): over age
Alek (4/23/2010 7:22:08 AM): goodbye
Alek (4/23/2010 7:22:21 AM): I want nothing more to do with you.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:22:31 AM): I'd rather be a cyber whore than a liar
Raven (4/23/2010 7:22:42 AM): at least I tell the truth
Raven (4/23/2010 7:25:13 AM): for all I know you could be some fat loser couch potato chain smoking in front of his computer jacking off to kiddie porn. I mean hell, if you'd lie about something as simple as your age, what else would you lie about? maybe you aren't really a doctor, maybe you're really just a psycho who THINKS he's a doctor. I mean, think about it! you're a lawyer supposedly anyway...and if your star witness gets caught in a lie, he loses ALL credibility, doesn't he? well...the same thing happens in real life.
at this point he stopped responding, probably because he had finally accepted that I was right, but more than likely so he could go con some other poor shmuck of a woman into believing his bullshit.
Raven (4/23/2010 7:47:04 AM): Phorxy Paolino‧: You deserve better than that, hunni. You're right. If someone lies to you about one thing, then god knows what else they've lied to you about
Raven (4/23/2010 7:47:14 AM): I'm not the only one